As a homeschooling parent and blogger, I’m used to some pretty outlandish comments about homeschooling. However, a recent one about how lazy and selfish homeschooling parents are really made me shake my head. Lazy and selfish? Seriously?

After giving it some thought, I came up with a few examples of such laziness and selfishness to go along with the ones (numbers 4 and 6) that the helpful commenter suggested.

It should go without saying that this is another dose of my sarcastic sense of humor. Unfortunately, I often find that it does not go without saying, so consider it said.

Also, please note that ordinary public and private school parents should not take offense. This post isn’t “us vs. them” and I’m not directing it toward you. I know you work your behinds off to feed, clothe, and care for your kids too.

On, the other hand, if you honestly think that homeschooling parents are lazy and selfish, I guess you can take offense, and we’ll call it even.

1. Homeschooling parents often sacrifice financially.

The majority of homeschooling families are single-income. I don’t know about all the other families, but if my family weren’t homeschooling, I’d most likely be working a full-time job.

I’d hazard to guess that the same applies to the majority of single-income homeschooling families. If so, it’s safe to say that may of them are foregoing vacations, home improvements (or a nicer home), newer cars, and the latest gadgets in order to homeschool.

Yep. Sounds selfish to me.

2. Single homeschooling parents and dual-income homeschooling families juggle their schedules to homeschool.

Single parents and dual-income families coordinate their schedules with their spouse or childcare provider. They give up downtime or hobbies in the evenings or on weekends to successfully homeschool their children.

They’re obviously lazy.

3. Homeschooling parents invest their time educating their children.

I love homeschooling, teaching, and learning alongside my kids, but there are certainly days when I’d rather be doing other things. I am usually just as disappointed as the kids for school breaks to end.

If you start in kindergarten, homeschooling is, at a minimum (depending on how many kids you have), a 13-year daily investment. That’s obviously the route of selfish and lazy individuals.

4. Homeschooling parents just don’t want to have to get up to get their kids on the bus in the mornings.

Yes, that is absolutely why we do this – so we can sleep a couple of extra hours.

5. Homeschooling parents spend time self-educating to teach their children more effectively.

One of my most selfish, lazy thoughts was, “I’d love to spend a few years of my adult life muddling through algebra again. Hey, I know – I’ll homeschool!”

6. Homeschooling parents don’t send their kids to school so that they don’t have to answer uncomfortable questions about drugs, alcohol, and sex.

Absolutely. My kids live in a bubble, and they never hear about or bring up those topics. Maybe some homeschooling parents can shelter their children from those things, but most of the homeschooled kids I know still have contact with other kids. They hear about all those topics and ask questions.

If they didn’t, all we’d need to do is turn on the TV. A few prime time commercials should bring up plenty of uncomfortable sex and alcohol topics.

Granted my kids were all probably older than many of their public schooled peers when they first encountered those topics, but honestly? I’m okay with that. I don’t think that makes me lazy. Instead, it makes me thankful that I could delay exposure to topics that they weren’t developmentally ready to understand.

7. Homeschooling parents willingly endure the stress of accepting sole responsibility for their children’s educations.

It doesn’t happen every night, but I’ve had my fair share of sleepless nights wondering if I’m teaching my kids all they need to know. There have been times when I’ve thought that maybe I should have sent them to public or private school so that if they really weren’t prepared academically, we could at least blame someone else.

The fact that I, along with the other homeschooling parents I know, are willing to shoulder that responsibility clearly speaks to our lazy and selfish nature.

8. Homeschooling parents often endure the ridicule of family, friends, and strangers.

When my oldest was in school, no one ever stopped me in the grocery store to tell me how crazy they thought it was that I was sending my child to school. I was never lambasted online or in person with someone’s opinion of how terrible a choice I was making and how I was ruining my kids’ lives.

I must have selfishly thought I’d enjoy all the attention.

9. Homeschooling parents are also part-time chauffeurs.

I know that all parents feel this way, but from my perspective as a homeschool mom, we don’t even have a bus to take our kids on cool field trips – it’s just us and our mini-vans. There’s no chance that our children will get to do some of their clubs, sports, and other extracurricular activities while they’re at school; we know we’re going to get to drive them.

Of course, all that time in the car together often proves fun. A car ride is one of the best ways to get a teen to talk to you. So, maybe that makes me selfish, but surely not lazy. When I’m running my kids all over creation, I tend to feel more frazzled than lazy.

10. Homeschooling is a legal excuse from jury duty in some states.

I don’t have any problem performing my civic duty, and I actually find jury duty fascinating. However, my name seems to come up more than most people’s. I’ve served two or three times and been excused twice.

My first excuse was because I was the primary care provider for a child under the age of 2, and later I was excused due to my role of primary teaching parent in a homeschool.

Am I lazy and selfish enough to homeschool just to get out of jury duty? Hmmm…

Are you a lazy, selfish homeschool parent? In what way?

Because laughter does a body good, here’s another installment of search engine questions that led people to my site. A few of them are legitimate questions with serious answers, but most are funny – at least, I took them that way.

1. Can homeschooled kids get jobs? Yes. My homeschooled kids have had no trouble getting jobs. They are apparently very charming during interviews. I’m basing this on the fact that they are offered the job following an interview more often than not.

It usually comes up during the interview process that they’re homeschooled since it’s on their application. So far, it’s been no more than a curiosity for employers. It hasn’t seemed to be a drawback.

2. Can homeschooling moms ever have a clean house? Not for very long. At least that’s been my experience. I’ve given up trying to do it all.

3a. Can my child start with Easy Grammar Ultimate if they’ve never used the series before? Yes.

3b. Do I need Daily Grams if I have Easy Grammar? In my opinion, yes. You don’t need it, but Easy Grammar and Daily Grams complement each other.

3c. Do I need the Easy Grammar teacher’s book? Yes. Even if you’re an English major who never needs to crack the book to find the answer to a tricky question, the teacher’s book makes checking your student’s work so much quicker and easier.

4. Do you wake up your homeschooler? Yes. They’re teenagers. They would literally sleep until 3 or 4 o’clock in the afternoon if I didn’t wake them.

5. How do I make sure my homeschooled student’s credits count? I’m assuming this question is referring to high school students and college credits. There may be some colleges that give you grief (there’s one in every crowd), but most colleges are quite accepting of homeschoolers.

Most have information on their websites specifically for homeschooled students. Check the admissions requirements for potential colleges and don’t hesitate to contact them if you have questions.

I can’t recommend The Homescholar Guide to College Admission and Scholarships highly enough.

6. If you’re homeschooled, where do you say you go to school? At home. Alternately, you can name your homeschool and tell everyone it’s an exclusive private school, but my kids just tell people they go to school at home.

7. What kind of timer do you use in your homeschool? What makes this question funny is that it assumes all homeschoolers use timers. What makes it even funnier is that most of us could probably answer it without thinking. I still have this timer that I got at the 2:1 Conference years ago sitting on my bookshelf.

These days, I typically use my phone if we need a timer for something.

8. What do you tell people when asked why you homeschool? Your reasons. Okay, really, it depends on the setting, who’s asking, and why. If some random stranger in the grocery store is asking, I’d probably just say that it was a good fit for my family. If someone is genuinely curious and the setting allows for a more in-depth answer, I might go into the deeper reasons we homeschool.

9. Do I want to be homeschooled? Um, I’m not sure. Maybe. If you’re having trouble deciding, you might want to know why homeschooled kids like being homeschooled.

10. Do homeschoolers have to stand up early every morning? Again, um, I’m not quite sure. I mean, mine aren’t generally up early in the morning, standing or otherwise, so for us, that’s a no, but I can’t speak for everyone.

Bonus question: How do you make a model of a cell? Well, there are lots of ways to do it, but the very best way, in my humble opinion, is to make a cell cake.

What are some of the funniest questions you’ve been asked about homeschooling? Do you have any serious homeschool questions? Leave them in the comments and I’ll try to answer them.

This post is linked to Top Ten Tuesday and the Hip Homeschool Hop.

Every so often, I bring y’all some humor courtesy of the Google keyword searches that lead people to my site. Here’s another dose of funny questions about homeschooling.

For the record, lest someone accuse me of being snarky, I do realize that some of these are legitimate questions that just struck me as funny. Because I’m weird. And, I like to laugh. Y’all already knew that about me, didn’t you?

1. I’m so tired of hearing about homeschooling.

Here’s a tip: Don’t read homeschool blogs.

2. Are homeschooled kids weird?

Seriously. Every single time I look at my keyword searches. I think it’s been well-established that homeschooling parents have to work hard if they want to produce really weird homeschooled kids.

3. Do I need to teach my 6th grader for homeschooling?

Yes. If you’re going to homeschool, you really should teach your kids. It’s kind of important.

4. Do homeschoolers get sick days?

Only when they’re sick. When that happens, try these tips for homeschool sick days. And, if they’re trying to call in sick, but they’re really not, you may all need a mental health day.

5. Homeschooled kids didn’t learn to skip.

Um, okay. This is a problem? If it is, try this how to skip tutorial. Seriously, there is a YouTube video for everything.

6. How do you tell people you homeschool?

Okay, are you ready? Here goes. We homeschool. It’s really that simple. I mean, I get that it can be difficult if you’ve got relatives and friends who are hostile about homeschooling. That’s when you offer to pass the bean dip or see if you can adapt some of these tips for dealing with math-quizzing relatives during the holidays for year round use.

7. How to have a crush if you’re homeschooled.

I checked with Megan, my 14-year-old, on this because she has had plenty of crushes. She said as long as you don’t have a crush on your homeschool classmates (a.k.a. your siblings), you should be fine.

8. Moody preteen and homeschool.

I’m not sure what, exactly, this person was trying to find, but I just had to say, whoever you are, I feel your pain. I have so been there. My kids would probably say that same thing about the search phrase moody mom and homeschool, though, so I guess we’re even.

9. What do homeschoolers need?

A little love. Some understanding. A nap would be nice. And, sweet tea. Lots of sweet tea.

10. How does a homeschooling mom have free time?

Graduate your kids. Just kidding. Mostly.

What funny things have people said or asked you about homeschooling?

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Thinking of homeschooling? You probably shouldn’t. No, you definitely should not. It’s too late for me, but save yourselves!! Heed these 10 {funny} reasons you should definitely not homeschool.

{Since people on the internet tend to be rather testy, I probably shouldn’t wait too long to make it clear that this is another example of my quirky sense of homeschool humor. It’s humor, y’all. Smile. There’s more in life to be upset about than strangers on the Internet.}

1. You should not homeschool because your kids will be weird and unsocialized.

I mean, really. Didn’t you meet your neighbor’s aunt’s cousin’s nephew’s kids? They were homeschooled and so very weird.

Our family is tarnishing the image of homeschoolers everywhere given the things we do to ensure that our kids aren’t weird and unsocialized, but we’re probably just the exceptions to the rule. Or maybe we’re too weird to recognize our weirdness.

2. Your homeschooled high schoolers won’t get to go to prom.

They are going to miss that rite of passage. You’re going to miss out on a chance to spend hundreds of dollars for your kid to go dancing for a couple of hours. Prom is the one night that will outshine the entirety of your homeschool experience. Your kids can’t miss prom. Don’t homeschool!

I mean, you could organize a homeschool prom like the support group in our area does. Then, your kids could homeschool and still spend hundreds of your dollars (or not). Just a thought.

3. Your kids will sit around all day doing nothing.

Nothing. Just video games and TV all day.

Or, you know, you could be the parent/teacher and make them do school. Just another crazy thought. It’s what I do, but we’ve already established that I may just be weird and I’m clearly ruining things for homeschoolers everywhere.

4. Your children will be pale and unhealthy from being in the basement all the time.

Because that’s what homeschooling parents do. Just lock the kids in the basement. All day. Doing nothing but watching TV and playing video games.

Okay, so my kids really are pale – like vampires – but it’s just their coloring. What can I say? Blue-eyed gingers, all of ‘em. Josh does sit in the basement playing video games, but it’s usually at night when his – gasp – friends are online.

We go outside once a week whether we need to or not.

5. You should not homeschool because you’re not smart enough.

Don’t do it! Don’t homeschool. You’re probably not smart enough.

If you really think you’re not smart enough to homeschool your kids, you might want to reconsider sending them into the same educational system that has you questioning your ability to teach your 2nd grader.

The average high school graduate who is willing to commit to help his or her children learn is perfectly capable of homeschooling them.

6. Homeschooled kids aren’t ready for the real world.

Don’t homeschool your kids! They will not be prepared for the real world. They won’t get to experience mean teachers, mean kids, bullying, or any of those other things that get kids ready for life after high school.

Clearly, I’m not sheltering my kids enough. They’ve had experiences with mean teachers (some wild and crazy homeschoolers take classes outside their homes), mean kids (no, not their siblings, but I could count them), and a recent bullying experience that resulted in blocked phone numbers and social media accounts.

Rest easy, moms and dads. In today’s online world, the bullies can find your homeschooled kids and get them up to speed on real-world stuff.

7. Homeschoolers are only able to get menial labor jobs.

Didn’t you know? All fast food employees are homeschoolers. That information is accurate as reported by a random stranger on Facebook who said that we need lots of homeschool grads because we need people to work at the fast food places.

I guess the homeschooled kids in my area are messing that up, too, because they seem greatly outnumbered by all the public and private school kids working at the fast food places. I would think simple numbers would suggest that homeschooled kids would be in the minority in the workforce, but maybe that’s just because I’m not smart enough to understand math and statistics.

8. Your kids will never find anyone to date.

How will your kids ever find anyone to date if you homeschool?! I’m sure this is a big concern for those of you with kids in elementary school. You’ve got to start ‘em early.

Miraculously, my kids have managed to find people to date. I should have done a better job of locking them in the basement.

9. Your kids won’t learn how to interact with difficult people.

You should not homeschool because when people are mean to your kids, they won’t know what to do. They’ll just burst into tears or run away or some such.

Did I mention that my kids have siblings? They also have me for a mom. We’re failing on this one, too.

10. You probably don’t have enough patience.

If you dare to homeschool, you’ll probably just wind up running screaming from your house all crazy-eyed with your hair sticking up all over the place one day. Nobody wants that. Don’t do it.

Again, fail. I would describe myself as having no patience, but I’ve managed to homeschool since 2002. So far, there have been no crazy-eyed escapes from the house (by the kids or me). Hmmm…weird.

I hope I’ve convinced you not to homeschool. {Or, you know, shown you another side to the crazy comments homeschoolers hear.} If I haven’t, what more should I have warned you about?

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